PSA: The Kindness of Truth
Recently, someone I care about hurt someone else I care about. I’ll keep the details for that novel I’ll write someday. But I at the center of all this hurt was the intention to do no harm and a whole lot of lies to spare a person pain.
In reflecting on the situation and what led up to it, I’ll just say this as a public service announcement to all you regular people out there trying to do the right thing:
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Yes, truth is the kinder route. But if that’s not enough of a reason to be honest, consider the obvious: it’s a whole lot easier to remember the truth than the little lies that build up.
Be kind; tell the truth.
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Honesty is the best policy, but sometimes that little white lie can spare a ton of hurt.
I hear you.
My experience recently has been on some major, major lies that built up over time. But I imagine those lies starting as every day little white lies. It's a slippery slope. With the sparing harm argument, the fundamental question is, "would it be better for the person to hear it from me now, or for them to find out in some other way down the road?" From that point, it's usually a matter of presentation and tact…